Chang...good or bad?

 There is a new change in my life right about now, which that shouldn't come as a surprise because change is all around us constantly. Whether in the weather or just with feelings, looks, etc. and we have to adapt right? Well I'm still new to this this idea, which it's hardly even 24 hours since the change occurred, so that should be acceptable. I guess the thing that I'm kind of weird about with this change is that when change comes it shapes peoples all around character, whether it takes a few days, months, sometimes even years. But the change is there, it has happened and now I'm wondering how its going to change the life it has occurred to and the lives around that person.
Maybe I'm just making a big deal out of this, and there isn't a deal worth being made. The thing that has scared me the most about life is that when there's change, there is no going back really. You can try to imagine it or reenact whatever used to be, but it will never be what it once was. People change, grow up, and take control of their own lives. That IS technically a good thing because it shows responsibility and leadership at a certain degree and that the persons brain is developing into adult hood and they have started the now long struggle called life. Where does all of the freedom, laughter, and childish dreams go? I think most of us leave it behind in our busy life styles.
It's just when I watch the people that I've grown so close to around me changing, growing up with me, and remembering how things used to be and seemed like they would stay that way forever...I want time to freeze. I know my blog is "waiting for time" because it seems that time has all the answers (in time) and you will find why things are so at the certain place in you memory. The changes though...they happen in the present and you don't know what the future holds, and all you can do is live from day to day and take it all in.

Maybe this is just the beginning of many changes, and if people really appreciate having certain things in their lives, they will work to keep them there.

"A change is inevitable, but to decide to change is a personal decision. Then when the decision we have made  is decided, we make it a life style." -unknown.